Why Porn Is Good For Your Relationship

Porn is a taboo subject for most couples. It’s filthy, it’s demeaning, and the actors are just in it for the money. Why should you watch porn when you have a partner ready to have sex with you? Are they not good enough for you? Are you not good enough for them? They feel porn is potentially ruining their relationship. These are very normal, but very negative, opinions men and women have about porn.

Porn is good for your relationship with the right attitude

The negative attitude is not going to do anything positive for your relationship. It’s time for a sexy paradigm shift. Welcome porn into your relationship and explore that dirty and perverted part of your mind you’ve been trying to hide.

Acknowledge That Porn Exists

Porn is out there all around us. Someone somewhere is filming a video right now! According to PornHub they get 5800 visits per second! You can read a lot more surprising stats on people’s viewing habits on PornHub’s Year In Review. You’re not going to be able to shield your relationship from it. Accept that it’s out there and start to explore the world of pornography to enhance your relationship.

Don’t Get Jealous About Some Pixels

There is no good reason to get jealous over someone’s porn habits. It’s a video, and they’re actors. If you truly love each other and want to be Love Tripping together for the long haul then  be adults about adult entertainment. If you do feel porn is ruining your relationship in someway then it’s time to have a serious, frank, and open discussion about your opinions. There is probably a deeper underlying issue to discover. Approach the situation cautiously but honestly.

Discuss Your Opinions On Porn

I have been indulging in porn in some form or another since I’ve known it exists. From my dad’s playboy stash, to watching scrambled porn on cable, to waiting two minutes for a picture to load on my dial up modem. I like porn, I said it, I won’t hide it.

Porn, just like wine, or steak, or dubstep just isn’t for everyone. And that’s ok! Be open with you’re opinion on porn and don’t judge each other. Just because your partner doesn’t share the same opinion on porn does not make them wrong! I’ve discussed my enjoyment of porn openly with Katie very early in our relationship. I made it clear watching porn is something I do on a regular basis, and that it won’t have a negative impact on our relationship. In fact, it’s had a positive impact on our relationship.

Porn Will Broaden Your Horizons

Every couple will fall into a sort of sexual routine. You start on top, then on your side, then on the bottom. There is nothing wrong with a routine, especially if it gets you both off. But nobody likes to eat sushi every night, sometimes you want tacos. Porn can open a whole world of sexual possibilities you’ve never even dared to imagine.

For example, If you’re thinking about giving bondage a try go watch some videos first. Use it to help you figure out what you might like and dislike. Just remember, these are professional actors. Do NOT expect your personal experiences to be anything like the video you’re watching. It’s just a guideline for you to do further research into adding kinky fun to your sex life.

If you’re feeling brave go to any of the popular tube sites and search for a random word like “apple”. You’ll be amazed at the random results. Some of what you find might intrigue you, the other stuff might frighten you. Explore with your partner and see who can find the hottest, or weirdest, or weirdest hottest video!

Watch Porn, Do Sex!

Porn makes for a great background distraction. Pick a video you both like and leave it on in the background as you start getting intimate. We like to put a video on, turn down the sound, and then play music over it. It’s like playing a really sexy music video while having sex. You’ll feel like a stud when you look up and you’re going at it harder than the actors in the video. Show them what you got!

It’s always a fun game to try to mimic what the actors are doing on the screen. You’ll quickly realize that the positions they have sex in are actually pretty difficult, and that it doesn’t feel nearly as good as normal positions. You’ll get a good appreciation of the actors skill.

Warm Up Your Sex Drive With Some Porn

There are a couple of ways you can use porn to get your engine revving for a good sexing. One by watching it together, the other by watching it by yourself.

Porn can help improve your foreplay in your relationship

Watching it by yourself is really useful when you have had a really long hard day at the office, and you’re horny, but you’re also exhausted. Take 15 minutes and hit your favorite porn site. Watch some videos by yourself, but do NOT masturbate! When you’re 15 minutes are done, it’s time to get to the action while the engine is still hot.

Use porn as foreplay to add a sexy little twist to the night. Pick a video you both like and sit separately, on separate couches if possible. Watch the video together and start touching yourselves. It won’t take long for you to be watching each other instead of the video. Before you know it the video is over and you’re in the full swing of things.

The Hard Part

The real hard part about watching porn together, besides what’s in his pants, is finding a video you both like. Don’t make it complicated. Try multiple sites, and try some random videos that seem intriguing. There is a good chance you’ll find the video you’re looking for in the “Related Videos” section. If you find yourself being turned off by the actors, try some anime porn, otherwise known as hentai, or some amateur videos of real couples. Think outside the box!

If after 10 minutes you’re still unsuccessful then just move on with the night. There is no reason to get frustrated because you can’t find a video you both like. Laugh about the struggle, turn off the computer, and turn on each other instead.

Don’t let porn ruin your relationship. Instead use it as a catalyst for some sex adventures! No matter what your tastes and desires are you’ll be able to find some videos that turn you on as  couple. There is a freaky world out there to explore. Dim the lights, fire up the web browser, and turn each other on tonight!

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Authored by: Chris Nanni

Chris is a geek that loves to cook, travel, and dream big. He brings the male point of view to LoveTripping. Chris believes there are no passengers on a LoveTrip, everyone has to take the wheel sometimes. He wants couples to take charge of their LoveTrip with teamwork, an open mind, and a level headed approach to conflicts.

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