In any long term relationship, remembering why you fell in love and still love each other is a crucial element to staying happy. Couples too often lose sight of the very things they once admired about their partners.
This week we want you to focus on your partner’s most amazing attributes and what they bring to the relationship. Use this challenge to start a conversation, bring back a little romance, or just appreciate your partner a little more.
This challenge can be done together or separately. It can be a gift for your partner or a way for you and your partner to show your love for each other.
You can make a daily video, keep a notebook, or take pictures to represent each day of the week.
At the end of the week, share your results with your partner and enjoy seeing their, surprise, laughter, and love for you.
We have separated each day of the week into a category for you but feel free to create your own categories or make it a longer challenge by adding an extra week or doing a whole month!
MONDAY – What is your favorite part of their body and your favorite mannerism?
TUESDAY – What personality trait attracts you to them the most?
WEDNESDAY – What is their best talent & what impresses you about them the most?
THURSDAY – What is something they did that you never got to thank them for?
FRIDAY – What is your favorite Little Loving Thing they do for you regularly?
SATURDAY – What is the best thing they do to help you through a bad day?
SUNDAY – Why do they make you happy?
You can answer these questions with simple 1 liners, create a photo album expressing each feeling, or make a daily 30 minute vlog. Whatever you do make sure it comes from your heart. This is a great way to reconnect with your own feelings towards your partner and to remind them they are loved.
MY TUESDAY EXAMPLE
Written: Your (Chris) best personality trait is your love for animals. The first time I saw you playing with your cat I just about melted. When I saw you play with my dog and saw how she immediately wanted to sit next to you, I was in love. It shows just how gentle and caring you can be and it translates into everything else you do.
Photo: Your love for animals shows how gentle and caring of a person you are.
Make this challenge a yearly event for Valentine’s Day, your Anniversary, or Christmas. The best gifts come from the heart afterall! For other fun weekly challenges try our 7 Days of Admiration or our 7 Days of Pleasure challenges.