Planning An Intimate Date Night

When you’re taking a LoveTrip, you are bound to experience some pretty wild stuff.  This exercise is to help you step out of your comfort zone and try something new. We want you to embrace it, go wild, let loose! Planning an intimate date night is the perfect way to discover new and exciting sexy adventures together.

Intimate Date Night


  1. Write down 3 sexual fantasies each that you would like to live out.
  2. Trade papers and pick your favorite fantasy from your partners list.
  3. Plan one (or two) date nights around the fantasies.


  • Your fantasy can be as simple or kinky as you like. For example a massage or a ball gag and handcuffs.
  • Don’t be shy, now is the time to really explore your limits!
  • Be honest with your partner, don’t agree to anything you’re not comfortable with.
  • Be open and positive. Don’t judge each other’s fantasies, this is a learning experience.
  • Live out your fantasies on one sexy date night or on separate occasions.
  • We want you to unplug for the evening and focus on each other. No distractions, no Netflix, no Twitter.

Our 3 fantasies:

  • Chris
    • Tie me up
    • Dress up like a sexy secretary
    • Talk dirty to me
  • Katie
    • Tie me up
    • Blindfolded Massages
    • Go to a strip club together

A brief summary of our intimate date night:

We started our evening with a sushi dinner where Katie wore a tight pencil skirt, revealing blouse, high heels, and fishnets. After our lovely dinner, and a bottle of wine, we were feeling really good. We headed to the sex shop, bought ourselves some Velcro restraints and a blindfold. Then we headed home for a fun filled night of fantasies. We woke up a little sore in the morning 😉

Share your sexy date night with us in the comments below!


Authored by: Katie & Chris

Chris and Katie are the LoveTripper’s. They have been together for over 9 years, and got married in April 2014. They believe that the key to a healthy long-lasting relationship is constant work and effort. The Love Tripper’s share their advice on how to keep that sexy fire burning, avoiding pointless arguments, and finding a deeper love for your partner every day. Love is a trip, enjoy the ride!

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